Happy Anniversary !

Lucky 13

Over the years there are days that have become annual traditions, celebrations, family gatherings, birthdays, etc. Needless to say we have two marriage dates; one contractual December 11, 2006, the other sacramental March 20, 2010. Though both hold significance neither are as close to my heart as these days May 13^th and May 17^th. It was these two dates that have altered the course of my life for the better. And I wouldn’t exchange the worst day of my life in fear it would change my destiny and deprive me of the opportunity of spending my life with you.

First Kiss

May 13^th, 2000. Two beautiful young ladies and a 27 year old arrogant immature fool hopped into Anthony Rivera’s hooptie (no offense Boogie, it got us there and back brother) and drove to Six Flags Great Adventure. We laughed and bonded, two young hearts, freshman in college looking to make our mark. I was mesmerized by you; taken aback by your determination, self confidence and of course YOU WERE SEXY BABY! We did not have a care in the world and with every passing glance and bright smile I fell for you more. Looking back now, riding on the Ferris wheel was the moment when I fell in love with you. I hated Ferris wheels, I was scared; I tried not to show it but I knew, you knew. It was there in that first moment of shared intimacy and vulnerability that you won my heart.

HORSE n CARRIAGE

May 17^th, 2000. I dressed to the nines that night. The best suit and tie I ever owned; polished shoes, fresh cut and shave plus enough cologne to choke elephant. I had a plan girl…a surprise in my coat pocket that I knew would touch your soul; tickets to Disney’s Broadway production of Beauty and the Beast. I remembered you telling me in theater class how much you loved the animation version and new the words to all the songs. I was confident we would have a great time and surprise since the thought was we were going to see Aida for a class project. Little did we know it would ignite a love of theater and art that would spark our globetrotting adventures! You looked stunning, elegant and way out of my league. After the show we ate at the Olive Garden (I Didn’t know any better). I never enjoyed a meal so much! Then we strolled through Times Square and walked around the city, taking in the surroundings as if it was the first time I ever seen these streets. In many ways I was viewing the city for the first time; from a whole new perspective. Then…the horse and carriage ride. I messaged your feet to ease the pain from walking in those sexy heels. And that’s when I realized …you had fallen in love with me.

Love and Marriage

Our relationship began like a hurricane; fast and furious we fell madly in love and never looked back. Most of the people around us thought we were moving to quick; told us to slow it down. No one ever got to define our happiness but us. Now 13 years, 2 kids, two cars, 3 cats, 4 dogs and a house later I love you more than I ever did. Being at your side as you have accomplished so much has been a privilege. From Community college to St. Johns University and then a masters from Fordham University. Years of service to the needy and less fortunate.   

You are a caring and nurturing mother to the greatest gifts I have ever received. You have brought me closer to God and strengthened my faith. You have bore the brunt of my deepest frustrations and insecurities. And for that I am truly sorry!

You have given me self worth, focus, purpose and supported my ambitions when all others have forsaken them. I am imperfect in more ways than I care to admit. It is impossible to ever express through words, actions or economics the love and devotion I feel for you. Whatever life has in store for me, I know with you by my side we will overcome all obstacles in our way.

Thank you!

Your loving, devoted and loyal husband!